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MEMORIES-TIME IN A BOTTLE
My memories are those of the common everyday person, forgettable even. And that's the problem . . . they've be forgotten or taken for granted by everyone who experienced similar happenings. If we don't remember where we've been, how can we plan where we're going?
If we take for granted all that we have, how will we dream?
In this day of instant everything, in this day of hand held computers, laptops, portable printers with your choice of paper textures and colors, who remembers when it took 2 people to enter data into a room size machine and waited an entire day for the machine to process output on a continuous sheet of white paper?.
Instead of life-sized images in living color, what about a bulky black and white TV where the only color was a taped on plastic sheet that was green on the bottom and blue on the top and the screen was only 5 or maybe a gigantic 9 inches wide?
In this day of one hundred dollar entertainment tickets featuring one or two acts, how many of our children would believe seeing an entire live stage show with five or six acts and a movie, for one dollar or even, a quarter?
My generation has seen some of the greatest advances in the shortest amount of time. From vendors with horse drawn wagons to rockets circling the universe. Dick Tracy watches to affordable wrist cameras. Rectangular phones in booths with circular dials to pocket sized, hands-free, communication devices that give time, temperature biorhythm advice, messages, wake you up and vibrate to let you know someone is trying to reach you.
In this day of brand names like Nike and Adias, who remembers Buster Brown, Keds and PF Flyers? Fifteen cent McDonald hamburgers, White Castle burgers, 12 for a dollar. 3 cent newspapers, 5 dollar dresses and twenty-five cents for a gallon of gas?
When there are VCRs, and Gameboys, who remembers when you entertained yourself with a book, or played a game of Parchessi? There was an innocence of the time where women and seniors were respected, all gone in this age of gangster rap, violence and blatant sex splashed across the screen. My generation was the last one to see class and elegance on a regular basis, not an accident. It wasn't all that long ago and yet it's forgotten by all but a few.
For the last couple of years of my grandfather's life, I would drive around Chicago taking a different route each trip, whenever possible. Gramps would point to a vacant lot or a building and say things like "I had a gal used to live over there, wonder what happened to her?" , and I'd ask how long ago was that? "Oh about 40, 45 years ago", he'd reply. I laughed then but now it seems like a pretty good place to start, oh about 40, 45 years ago. For my child and her children, that they might have a scale to judge my, and their, accomplishments, successes and failures, I decided to record my story, and you can do the same. All it takes is a spiral notebook, tape recorder or computer and time.
Start off with the time period or a subject that you wish to cover. I chose my childhood. Maybe you'll choose memories of vacations, changes in prices, or special events. Don't rush. Write, put the book aside if you wish, then as you recall new memories, record them. This is a project that came be done by one, parents for their children or it can be a group project. It can be a separate document or it can be part of a family history book.
Family tree creation is much the same, except you involve the memories and records of others. The first thing to decide is who is going to be responsible for being the family historian(s). The next is the item is to enlist the help of your family. It really is a joint venture. Everyone needs to search their memories, their closets, and attics for documents to fill in the blanks and stories to color you're your family's history. Later, you can expand your search to the internet, the public library, census records, microfiche, social security, and other federal records. Vacations can be planned around visits to cities, homesteads and cemeteries of ancestors. Researching and creating the family histories are good research projects for children, teaching them Internet skills, research skills, history, geography, world events and family heritage.
Your most valuable assets are the senior members of the family. Ask to see the family bibles, collections of obituaries, family papers. Interview them or just listen while the older members of the family tell their stories: who they are, what they have accomplished, who their parents, siblings, grandparents were. Ask them to go back as far as they can. It helps to have a tape or video recorder, but if you can take good notes, do so. I have found that if you can get 2 or more members of the family together and just let them talk while you record and make notes works.
Go back at the end and ask them to answer questions that may have come up, such as the legal or real name for a relative that they only mention by nickname. It's amazing how many relatives are known only by nicknames (Junior, Cousin Dit, Aunt Sis, Sonny are some of the names in my family).
If you have a computer, select a good software program and start entering. If not, find a professional to compile and edit your records. This will be an ongoing process. Remember, people are born, marry and die all the time. The book is never really finished.
Family histories, oral story collections, recipes, family event calendars, and pictures, all make great wedding gifts, birthday presents, family reunion memorabilia, holiday gifts, and heirlooms to pass on to your children.
Whatever you choose, start today and good luck!
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GERRI'S PALM TAVERN ON 47TH NEAR KING DRIVE IN CHICAGO
ONE OF MY CHILDHOOD MEMORIES WAS LOOKING BACK AT GERRI'S PALM TAVERN WHILE STANDING IN LINE AT FOR THE STAGE SHOW AT THE REGAL THEATER AROUND THE CORNER.
PERFORMERS WOULD DASH OUT OF THE BACK DOOR OF THE REGAL AND DOWN THE ALLEY TO GERRI'S BETWEEN SHOWS.
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